Sunday, January 29, 2012

The Freakonomics Guide to Parenting

I find it constantly amazing how people keep “rediscovering” things that we already knew, or perhaps more importantly, were already communicated to us through the Bible. 

I just finished reading a book called Freakonomics, a well-written and intriguing book that addresses a wide range of topics that are loosely related to each other. The underlying theme of the book is that economics’ study of numbers and trends offer insight into the behaviors and motivations of people, as well as reveal or at least theorize about certain societal issues. 

For instance, one of the most shocking revelations that the authors proffer is that the decline in crime in the 1990s was a result of Roe v. Wade and legalizing abortion, which allowed lower income, single, teenage mothers to avoid bring children into an environs that is conducive to a life of crime. Whereas previously abortions were prohibited and prohibitively expensive, so that only the wealthy could afford them, the new availability and legality reduced prices and stigma (somewhat) to the point where unwed mothers in high school with poor prospects could avoid bringing their sons (mostly) into such a situation. This transpired in the early 70s, which meant that when those aborted babies would have reached the late teenage years/early twenties when most burgeoning criminals began their careers, aka the 90s, those criminals simply weren’t there. Less criminals means less crime. Crime prevention through abortion, a solution that eerily harkens back to the Eugenics movement that led up to WW2 and the Holocaust. 

The authors, however, are not agitating or advocating abortion as crime prevention, merely following the data. This discussion led to the age-old question of nature vs. nurture in the formation of a person’s identity and behavior. And herein lies the issue that I wanted to share my thoughts on. Through demographic studies in California over the last 50 years, a wealth of information was gathered about babies and their mothers, specifically their socioeconomic, educational, etc. background. To make a long story short (TOO LATE!), the authors were able to compare different factors about the children’s development academically (admittedly a limited measurement) and show that parents matter not in what they do, but in who they are.

For example, if a family is in a higher socioeconomic it will lead to better test scores for the child than if the parents are still together. A higher income bracket suggests better educated parents who value and exhibit hard work, and therefore model it overtly or implicitly to their kids. It matters more if the parents are well-educated and have books in the home than if they take the child to museums or spank them. Spanking does not negatively affect test scores; reading to children does not positively affect test scores. A low birth weight does affect test scores years later because what it indicates is that the mother had the birth prematurely or did not have ample and appropriate prenatal care, which suggests that she was either uneducated, poor, or indifferent, if not all three. It is not a great leap in logic to assume that the child’s home life after birth will not significantly improve, which will then negatively affect the test scores. 

Make sense? That’s kind of the idea of the book in a nutshell: taking hard data and seeing where the connections are. Not necessarily that low birth weights cause bad test scores, but the correlation between the two can provide clues as to the common factor, the actual cause.  The point to this section of the book claims that children derive their behavior, work habits, etc from their parents’ lives, not teachings. “Do as I say, not as I do” is a proverb in the converse; it’s basically wrong and most people know it. 

And herein lies the brilliance of the Bible. “The sins of the father are passed down to the third and fourth generations,” the Old Testament states several times. And what that has usually been taken to mean, what I take it to mean, is that the consequences of the sins of the parents reverberate down to their children, shaping their children’s lives and affecting their behavior and decisions. My own thoughts and feelings toward alcohol were inherited from my father, who was deeply affected by his mother, whose personality and behavior was impacted by her drunken and abusive father. Four generations affected by a parent, almost a century of rammifications. And who knows if his father was the same way? Too often sons grow to be their fathers, or else the polar opposite of them; either way, the sons are inextricably affected by who their fathers are. 

As insightful and interesting as their observations have been, the authors of Freakonomics are covering old territory when it comes to understanding human behavior. For all that, their empirical approach lends credence to the proverbs and beliefs that have been passed down through generations. Consider this a recommendation to pick up that book, though everything you’ll ever need to know is to be found in the Bible.

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